Power of Control & Select Emotional Alternatives Cognitive Application Process (SEACAP)

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When are people going to get real? When society reads in the newspaper or catches on local news channels the headlines: Murder-Suicide, Domestic Abuse Homicide, or Workplace Violence, they are intrigued out of the common interest that everyone has; that being frustrations with relationships at home, work, and within their communities. It is from this realization people find themselves captivated in their wonder of why: “Why would a person go to such extremes as to purposefully destroy a life, family, or organization?”

In their ignorance, people don’t realize there is no answer to “why,” for “why” requires proof and justification to the reasoning behind such instances of violence. Indeed, there is no “proof” to substantiate such transgressions, nor is there reasoning to support “justification.” There is only human distress and in its wake, insurmountable misery.

For example, a person at work experiences an incident of humiliation and self-degradation. Seemingly unable to do anything about his or her distress, the person mentally beats him or herself up over the unfairness. Some become very quiet and others, explosive in isolation. Miraculously the day ends without incident, at least on the surface. Driving home in a 4ooo pound machine the mental masturbation or the beating up on oneself mentally continues: “Who do they think they are…? I don’t need this shit!” Experiencing the exhilarating power and control of the machine, maybe the person feels a bit empowered, “Look at that asshole driving so smug, I’ll show him!” He or she speeds up and cuts the person off. Continuing the drive, thoughts go from, “Screw them, I’ll quit…, to …supper better be ready when I get home.” Gets home, supper is not ready, seeks out the person who will cower the most and all hell breaks loose. Screaming at the objectified pawn (e.g., person) he or she yells, “Why did you make me do that?”